Ugh! This day started off with me waking up super early and it was down hill from there. It is very rare that I feel like Scrooge, but today just took the cake. I was(am) in Supreme Restless Bitch mode. I'm feeling stuck and I don't know why. I could sit and analysis my behavior, but I just don't give a fuck. So instead I'm going to unload a few of my pet peeves.
1. Why do people say, "I hate to bother you" or "I'm sorry to bother you" ? If they were sorry or hated to do it, then they wouldn't. It's just a ploy to mollify(I think I used the word correctly) me while I give you what you want. It is so transparent. Stop beating around the bush and ask me for what you want.
2. Why do we(young people) have to sit and over analyze everything nuance of an encounter with the object of our affect instead of doing what's necessary to make things that you want to happen? We're supposed to be fearless, but it seems that we all suffer from a bad case of bitchassness. I'm guilty of this too. So I declare that moving forward, I will drop my bitchassness and start to be the bad ass bitch I know I can be. Who's with me?
3. Why doe we do things that we don't want to just to appease another? Be it friend, loved one or lover? This is the time of out lives to be selfish, within reason of course. Let's live it up and if the appeasement isn't utilitarian-fuck it.
4. Why is it so easy for our friends to have the answer to our problems, but we don't see it? Thus we spend hours crying into our drinks while they try to make us see what they see so clearly. Lesson is to know thyself.
Thanks for letting me get this off my chest. I feel so much better.
Yay for blogging by email!!!
Nik
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2 comments:
1. I think it's one of those common-courtesy things, but it doesn't always make sense.
2. That's just how we are. It sucks.
3. I suppose all friendships and relationships require compromise of some sort, that might be why?
4. People have their own individual logic that's crystal clear for them but harder for others to follow.
i do 2 alll the time, but it's just silly little things that wont effect the relationship and will be forgiven/forgotten shortly or ill decide that i actually hate it and leave the guy
...my friends, on the other hand, will talk themselves into circles about issues that hugely bother them just to convince themselves to stay in relationships that dont make them happy, so im stuck on the wrong side of #4 way too often.
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