I love the girls who read our blog. However, I am a red-blooded heterosexual woman and I'm wondering where the boys are? Do I have to write a scathing post about the many deficiencies of the male sex? If that's what will unearth you, I will. Try me. ;)
I have a question. When do you let the freak out when getting busy on the regular with a guy ( i really need to stop watching BET, but i feel the need to support my misguided people)? I'm just curious. Would it scare them away if you wanted to be more aggressive? Should you follow the lead? I know that it takes some time to get to know the other person and how you work together. Yet, sometimes don't you feel the need to throw him down and ...
For all their talk of women being more aggressive in making the first move, I think it's a lie. I think they'd run for the hills if a girl really laid her cards on the table and told him to strip. Hee Hee.
Again, I need a big drink
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Hmmm... sexy, single sister, it IS called the "Single GIRLS Club"...
As for the kink, well, you've read my blog so you know how un-shy I am...I say go for it. Spank that ass a little and see how they respond and then let the fingers do the walking and see what gets a good response... Sometimes it's better to throw out directions in the height of the passion... they are pretty much putty in your hands at that point.
Git ur freek on sister! ;)
THANK YOU! I think it scares the hell out of a man until you've been with him for a while...and even then it's questioned!
i think you have to do what you wanna do right at the start to avoid freaking them out once they think they've got you figured out.
This is so simple.
We love it when you guys get freaky, asked to be spanked, talked dirty to, etc. We love it. We'd probably try and ask you to do it all the time, except that we're afraid you'll be repulsed. The whole "can't we just make love?" thing.
Now, here's a simple rule of thumb. Get freaky with you boy. If he gets scared, you're boning the wrong dude... not to mention a total anomaly.
So throw it down and break out the handcuffs.
handcuffs? hmm, leo and his ideas... he may be the anomaly.
guys may say that's what they want, but somehow i doubt it. it's the same as what so@ was saying about women. the same applies to guys. why can't we just say what we mean and mean what we say? ooh, another post idea.
Nik, please, with a cherry on top, trust me on this one.
Have you ever SEEN a porn? Those things are targeted at us. We like to get freaky. Again, we're just timid about it because we think girls don't. We don't want you to think we're, well, freaks.
Doubt it all you like, but as a guy, who hangs out with lots of guys, who talks with many other guys candidly about sex, GET FREAKY.
Then you can blog about how it went, which will likely be a great story. Kthanxbai.
BE AGGRESSIVE (in the sack anyway)!
For the love of God. I promise only positive results.
Leo's right on this one!
fine. you boys talked me into it. now all i need is a candidate...
so glad to see some of the boys responding again. i can't help but notice how they only pop up when sex is involved. guess that really shouldn't surprise me though... :)
i'd like to take this convo in another direction though and put some pressure on the guys to...uh, have a hand so-to-speak, in initiating the freaky stuff in the sack. i mean really guys, how many times do you need to hear that a girl just really wants to be thrown up against a wall every now and then?!
plus, in my experience, if there's a real chemistry there, the freakness is usually a joint effort. if your partner is super timid, i don't think it's a good idea to bring out the fluffy handcuffs and blindfold. i'm just saying...
Very very true! I once suggested to someone to do that to someone else and his response was that I shouldn't go with that and use the more conventional girl hookup tactics.
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